5 Secrets To Make Guys Go Gaga

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. BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION

Want to be the one who gets noticed? Stand in the center of the room. According to Dr. Albert Mehrabian, the author of several books and nationally-known expert in the field of spatial psychology, where you are in a room (and what you're doing) has a lot to do with your ability to attract the opposite sex. Where should you be for the highest impact and the greatest number of interested cuties? Smack-dab in the center of the room, standing up and moving around a bit. (But don't pace a track on the carpet for goodness sake...)

If you're in a bar or nightclub, the best place to be is at one of the corners on the bar. Not only will you meet more people, but, according to Mehrabian, bartenters tend to gravitate toward the corners as well. Interesting conversation AND a full drink? You'll feel like you've died and gone to dating heaven. The worst place to be seen? Hanging out near the wall or sitting at a table. That hot stranger approaching your table and asking "may I join you" only happens in the movies.

2. THE COLOR

What color can you wear to compel the opposite sex to approach you?

According to Color Consultant Leatrice Eiseman, Director of the Pantone Color Institute and author of Colors For Your Every Mood, says women should wear a pink- peach to make themselves most approachable. The color is "very flattering to most skin tones, it gives you healthy glow," and according to Eiseman, projects "a little vulnerability which brings out something protective in men."

Want to wear a color that weeds out guys who can't handle strong women? Try a deep red, burgundy or plum. Men who aren't attracted to strong women will steer clear.

Of all the colors, red is the most sensual. But, wear red with caution. "Red is the color of sex and power," says Eiseman. Red adds an element of excitement and attracts two types of men - men interested in sex, and men attracted to powerful women. Sure, you'll probably have to fend off a lot of freaks, but you could also end up attracting a guy that isn't threatened by the fact that you make a bigger salary.

Concerned your wardrobe is driving people away? Stay away from what Eiseman calls "squished caterpillar yellow-green" which is said to repel both sexes equally.

Want to know what color the dream guys will be wearing this year?

It’s blue. According to Eiseman, guys who frequently wear blue are "stable, faithful, constant and always there." The blue guy is a fantastic candidate for a long-term relationship -- he’s dependable, momogomous and can match his own clothes.

3. BODY TALK THAT REELS 'EM IN

How do you use body language to attract the opposite sex?

The key is to make yourself approachable. According to nationally-respected body language expert and professional speaker, Patti Wood, you want to make yourself a "safe" (read approachable) target. How do you accomplish that? Don't take up a lot of space (which is a sign of power and superiority.) Wood says, "we are strong women, but remember, we're trying to get a man to come over and talk to us." She explains, "you have to show you have room for someone else in your life."

In addition, Wood says "to be very approachable women should stand with their feet no farther than 6 inches apart with toes pointed slightly inward. " Other key moves, the nod and the head tilt - signal you're listening to what the other person has to say.

Body language tips for both sexes: Don't fold your arms and don't chew on gum, ice or your fingernails. According to Wood, the chewing indicates anxiety or frustration, neither of which are very attractive emotions.

4. THE POWER OF A SMILE

Psychology and body language experts agree that one of the most important things you can do to make yourself more attractive (and approachable) is to smile. Not a great big plastic game-show smile, just your normal "I'm having a great time and I'm happy to be here" face will do the trick. According to Wood, "the smile is the international signal of friendliness."

5. TEMPTING WITH SCENT

Studies show that men associate the scents of cinnamon and vanilla with love. To make the scents work for you,

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Top Dating Tips for Men - How to Date Women

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Top Dating Tips

Are you a new member to the dating scene? Are you regular in trying to meet new women? Whatever you might be, you must be eager to know about dating and gathering tips and suggestions that are going to help you when you would be dating. It also happens to so many people that they simply wish to have had met a dating guide who could have offered him some dating tips and dating advices. The case may not be quite different in your case also.

There is a very wrong notion regarding dating or attracting women. Some people in the world think that the good looking people are the original winners are the perfect dating masters. Otherwise there must be some magic formula. My dear friend, let me explain it to you. There is, in fact, no magic formula. Neither the good looking persons are always perfect dating masters. It is all within you. The women that you want to date are no goddesses or no supernatural beings. They are human beings after all. Behave like a man what you are. If you can successfully carry this out, you are surely going to be a perfect dating master. If you are looking for dating tips that will help you become a dating master just click down the page and you will come across the top dating tips that, if you follow, are sure to make you a successful and tricky dating master.

Before you venture upon anything, preparation is something that is a must. If you really have the desire to become a dating master, you must think of the preparation that you ought to take before you start out with dating a woman. Get it sure which part of the day you are free for the dating. You should also think in which part of the day you are most comfortable with general people. Take dating as a part of your daily and very natural routine. There is no reason to take dating as a serious affair.

Tip 2 of top dating tips:

It is true that you never need to be a very attractive and handsome looking person. On the other hand it has to be kept in mind that you should not be bad looking. And, no one on this planet is bad looking. What you are asked to do is to take care of your health so that you do not look ugly. Visit the gym regularly. Have the stylish hair cut and get into the right pairs of clothing. All of these things would reflect what kind of care you take of yourself. You may look mad or an extremely careless person. But you can say, “There’s a method in my madness.” They cannot but believe you.

Tip 3 of top dating tips:

Before you begin with dating women, have your homework first. What you need moist is the familiarity with the situation in which you are going to date a woman. You should also prepare yourself for a number of situations for you never know what kid of situations you are going to face while dating a particular woman or proposing a woman for dating. If have the ideas about the situations from an earlier time, it would be quite easier for you to cope up with the situation when it really arrives.

Tip 4 of top dating tips:

This is going to be one of the most important and top dating tips. Give it a deep thought before you start dating women. The question arises what you will give the thought to. Have a clear conception about how long you want to proceed with the relationship with the woman whom you are dating. Decisions will of course be different if you are going to marry within a short period of time.

Tip 5 of top dating tips:

Have confidence. There is no better tip for you to become a dating master. If you have it you are better than anybody. If you are without it, none can help you. Try to gain confidence in each and every action of yours. You can also gain confidence out of your thinking process. Have a positive thinking in your mind.

Tip 6 of top dating tips:

Enjoy dating as it is. Pay attention to your desires or some deeper intentions. At the same time, you have got to keep in mind the fact that the first and foremost step of dating women is to be sociable and familiar with them. Do that perfectly before everything, and you will fid that women themselves are desirous of dating you.

Tip 7 of top dating tips:

Take care that you are giving proper time to the woman you are dating. Even if it happens that you are dating a dozen of women at a time, without letting anyone know about your dating with the others, your body language should make it clear that you are too interested in her and her only.

Tip 8 of top dating tips:

Your interaction with the women should never reflect the fact that you are always available for the woman. Do not be humble for making out or going to the bed in the initial stages. The more you become attractive to the women, they more they will feel going to bed with you. It never means that you turn your face from sex in such a manner that women start avoiding you supposing that you are sexually frustrated and frustrating as well.

Alex Coulson has been a core leader in the ever evolving dating industry, he holds cutting-edge dating workshops/courses every weekend around Australia and regularly holds dating seminars on attracting women internationally.

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Sexual Body Language

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Sometimes it can be hard to tell what’s going on with your girl: Is she enjoying herself? Are you doing it right? Is she satisfied? Women can be hard to read, especially when it comes to sex. Though, all in all, if she is getting off you are bound to know about it on some level. If you’re not so sure and need some reassurance, check out her more subtle signs -- her sexual body language.

She will show you -- hopefully in no uncertain terms -- how you’re performing. Her body will display some overall signs of arousal that she can’t fake, but remember every woman is different. So, yes, it can often be just as difficult to get nonverbal feedback on your performance when there are so many variables. So, we've put together some general sexual body language signs that she's getting exactly what she wants from you.

Rapid breathing

Our breath when resting is a very peaceful and tranquil movement of air in and out of our lungs. It has the delightful title of "inspiration" for breathing in, and "expiration" for breathing out. When a woman is turned on, however, this breath comes in urgent puffs and probably has some involuntary moans escape with it as the air is forced quickly past her vocal cords. The increase in heart rate when her body prepares for orgasm means her internal organs and muscles are demanding more oxygen. If you can hear her breath change, you’re on the right track. If you can feel her heart thumping, you’re well on your way. This is her sexual body language giving you signals that she's aroused. However, if she's breathing normally after having her "big orgasm," perhaps she’s a big faker.

General writhing around and body movement

If your girl is curling her toes and writhing against you, chances are she's probably enjoying herself. Grinding and pushing against you means that she's really getting into it. If she's lying there limp, then things probably aren’t happening for her. Try changing positions, or stop entering her and warm her up from the beginning with your mouth or hands and see how her sexual body language progresses from there.

Thrusting hips

When she meets your thrusts, you’re doing something right. It's pretty safe to say that if she's matching your body movements and is in time with you, then she's getting something out of it. Good sex is often very synchronized, as that is how our bodies are designed to produce orgasm; repeated movements in the right spot build to a climaxing. The trouble is finding the right spot, of which there are many. If she isn’t meeting your thrusts then her sexual body language is telling you that she wants something else, so change positions and see how she responds.

Arms splayed out

If she's holding herself close she may not be feeling wild abandon -- her arms may be around you, her hands may be on your chest, above your head, wherever, except they're being held in close to her own body. If she's on top she may need her arms to maneuver herself and give herself some leverage to get the best angle. This is certainly not a definitive gesture, but can be useful. Her body should be responding to the situation at hand. She shouldn't be worried about covering herself up or where her arms are. If her arms are stretched wide, either held out to the side or splayed out on the bed sheets, you can bet her sexual body language is telling you you're right where you need to be and she's comfortable (and enjoying the ride). 

Vaginal muscle movement

You have one of your most sensitive parts inside one of her most sensitive parts -- with each movement inside of her you can feel the walls of her vagina, the muscles and flesh. The vaginal wall is an incredibly strong muscle and she will probably use this to some extent for her own pleasure during sex. You may also feel the contracting and relaxing during orgasm -- her vagina spasms and this will clench you to some degree -- but not always, so don’t use that as a benchmark. Some women do have great control, and those who do are likely to have better sex and orgasms in general. If you don’t feel any clenching, don’t panic. You may know already by the feel of her vagina when she's not far away from orgasm -- she may let you enter further, or the overall sensation may be "just right" for you both. Only you can tell, so pay careful attention to her sexual body language and what’s going on inside of her.

learn the language of lovin'

Women love sex as much as men do, but what's sometimes missing is the self-knowledge, and of course a skilled partner who brings out the erotic best in himself and her. If you're unsure as to whether your lover is enjoying herself during sex, there is a need for more investigation. Communicate verbally and non-verbally; ask her what she wants you to do, carefully watch and listen to her responses to what you’re doing and don’t assume that what worked for your other girlfriends is going to work for her. Every woman (and man) has different tastes and won’t necessarily respond to the same touches, so try a few different things and don’t stick to a routine. Experiment, tease, tantalize, change positions. When you hear her moan, you’ll know you've hit just the right spot, so don't stop there.

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